Adding Depletion?

One thing that keeps arising as I speak to women about partnership is this THING where they're doing their shit, single, living their lives, then a partner comes in, and suddenly he's not meeting their needs, they're feeling depleted etc etc.

"What do I do," they ask me, "when this man isn't showing up for my NEEDS?"

And I blink.

And I look long at them.

And then I ask,

"How could adding a generative resource to your already functional life somehow leave you depleted?"

This is not rhetorical. There are many answers to this question, and ALL of them lead you back to the personal responsibility required to actually HAVE partnership.

Getting partnership is easy, HAVING partnership is the hard part. It's the part about structures and maintenance and personal responsibility. It's about how you actually need to hold yourself more carefully upright to dance with a partner than you do when you're dancing alone.

This embodiment is learnable via a template. That's why I created Something Like This.