Compatible Incompatibility

Compatibility in real human relationships involves compatible incompatibility.

A compatible incompatibility is a place where I am neutrally not met.

In a compatible incompatibility, I feel at worst bored or lonely, I crave something which is not available via this source.

The key to sustainable incompatibilities is alternative sources.

Sustainability requires redundant sources of nourishment.

Compatible incompatibility does not leave me hurt or harmed, but it might leave me in emotional pain. This is not a problem, because emotional pain is an existential matter—some things will hurt simply because I am participating.

Here's how to tell if it's a circumstantial or existential pain—does it get worse or better if I leave the circumstance?

You can always take as much time and space from a REAL connection as you require to feel and sense your own love, availability, and desire.

Feeling, expressing, and, if necessary, investigating grief is a form of nourishment.

You can always take the space necessary to nourish yourself to bring prosperity to the connection.

Tune into compatibility with Something Like This, happening only twice this month, and only happening live.