Harmonic
Harmonic devotional partnership creates energy.
This is why there are patterns of bliss and explosion.
Some people have the practices required to begin a harmonic devotional partnership, but do not have a plan to allocate the energy this will generate.
They begin partnership, generate a ton of energy, and proceed to use the energy to pick apart the partnership with constant evaluation, threat-awareness, and criticism of what is not available. They use up the energy, destroy the partnership, and then no longer have to contend with more energy than their system knows what to do with.
This is what happens when energy generated flows into a system which runs on fear.
It's so compelling—the fear systems have been programmed into us all, specifically tuned in our culture to romantic relational threats.
We were never taught peace.
We were not taught to be at peace in peace, and many of us had our peace constantly disrupted in childhood.
Peace is a practice of allocating energy to offering love.
Peace is a practice of appreciative attention.
Peace is a result of exquisite boundaries of what I show up for and how I show up.
Peace is what allows partnership to be coverage and context for each partner's expansive and enormous life, directing generated energy outward on the world, powerfully creating.
If you want more bliss and less explosion, it's a matter of practices. Just like you learned what it takes to get a partnership off the ground, you can learn what it is to keep it afloat effortlessly, pleasurably, playfully.
You can learn where to place your attention to get the most out of your experience of life. How this looks is unique to you. The techniques are universal.