How do I find community?
One question people ask me a lot is "where do you find community?"
I tell them, "using the principles I teach, community is inevitably drawn to me."
It's true, and it's my honest answer. If there's an airport delay, you can bet I have an airport community around me.
AND now I'm proud to offer a different answer to those asking.
My work attracts brilliant individuals. Professionals, artists, people you would want to know. They’re in these monthly zoom calls, accessing my teachings on the technology of right relationship, on cultivating a happy home and vibrant community.
I'm offering an ongoing curriculum as a buffet, and when you show up for it, you're among the people you would want in your community.
Sure, they're around the globe, they may not be proximal, but this gives you practice in such a community. It shows you what it feels like. It shows you what you feel like within it.
When you identify these feelings, you're identifying alignment for yourself. You're identifying a positive target, beyond a checklist of qualities you're seeking in friends or lovers—an embodied sensation throughout your body of what it feels to be adequately stimulated in nonromantic connection, to share deep and vulnerable conversation, to hold this life-thing as a community instead of holding it all alone.
Understanding this template, as you venture forth into the world, you resonate the context of this type of relating, and you draw in those who are comfy with it. A small comment at the grocery store can bloom into coffee dates and playdates and eventually group vacations.
Understanding the template of how you show up in aligned community, falling in love with what aligned loving community calls forth in you, you gain confidence in being that self in public.
Trusting your expression to be true and loving, to be palatable to those who are for you, you're bold with it.
Trusting the value of repulsion, you see it as a small matter when your bold expression inspires new distances in formerly close relationships.
If you want to meet people who are living on the very edge of radical responsibility and loving relationships, the masterclasses we are gathering for are an absolute gold mine. People attracted to these concepts like each other and resonate with each others' experiences. People on the calls are authentic and earnest in their desire to know what it looks like to live love.
These are the kind of people you want to know, and the more of them you meet any way, the more you'll be able to identify them when you encounter them close by.
I hope you will join us. The people in these classes are incredibly wise and learned and successful, they're living big lives and asking intricate questions, and you all deserve to know each other. You deserve to see that you already have a community, that people commune with the very experiences you have in your day to day life. You deserve to know this together.
