If You Want Surrender

If you want surrender, surrender your relationship with the masculine. Surrender the relationship into his hands.

Knowing I want a relationship in which I can surrender, it is not for me to maintain relationship with a man.

It is certainly not for me to maintain relationship with a man I wish was maintaining relationship with me.

If you want a man who maintains a relationship with you, surrender your relationships with men into their hands.

When they create a context and structure for your relationship to thrive, decide exactly how you delight to participate within it.

This is as small as a text message or a date, a vacation, time together, a phone or zoom call, and as large as marriage. I delight to receive their architecture of context, so I do not architect context and keep my interactions content-based, appreciating the content we have shared.

Surrender the relationship to him, and live in your own life while you trust him to create the context for any relationship which is important to him.

If you cannot trust him to create a context for your relationship to thrive, that is that. That is final. You cannot trust him to create a context for your relationship to thrive, so if you really desire this quality in a man, especially in a life partnership, surrender that particular relationship to nothingness.