Love Bud
Allowing relationship to unfold is the path of maximum sweetness, adoring exactly what it is.
Would you detest a newborn for how it could not yet crawl, say "it would be complete if only it would crawl..."?
No, you recognize that it is whole already, though so limited as to be unrecognizable to its potential form.
We can do the same with a budding connection.
Let it be exactly what it is.
If you pry the bud open to see the color of the petal, you won't see the blossom or the fruit.