Loyal to Love Itself

My boundaries are squishy lovey touchable soft places where I am fully available and opted in to offering my presence and most sacred attention and love.

if you don't have this type of access to me, there is no other access available. My love comes in ONE flavor, and it is the flavor of devotion.

There is almost always a distance where I have created space for you to experience this of me.

The way I require you to occupy the space I have set aside for you is an exquisite filter for who honors my preferences.

These are the terms of my availability, and we will have a DELICIOUS time there.

You can grab for more, but there is nothing there. Not even my indignation or interdiction.

You can grab for what you need, but I do not believe you need that from me, and I lovingly bless you to find it elsewhere when I do not show up.

You will receive no reproach, because reproach is not a valuable use of my sacred attention.

I'm showing up somewhere with love at all times. I have plenty to keep me busy in that practice, I am too busy loving easily and sweetly to show up where love is challenging to receive or communicate or share or experience.

I simply move, with my narrative and my body, my literal physical and metaphysical presence and attention, to the relational conditions where I feel loving, gracious, devoted, sweet, soft, and receptive.

I move like kelp moves, with that smooth ease, with that agreement, rooted in gravity's authority. relaxing upward.

this is what it means to be loyal to love itself.