Nourishing Her Expansion
I love the women who come to me for partnership nourishment.
Women who already feel like they've been doing it all in their relationships for too long, somehow find the courage to sign up with someone whose whole schtick is personal responsibility.
It's because she can FEEL the ease I have to offer her, through nourishment and understanding.
The truth is, she *has* been doing it all in her relationship, and when we find her *actual* responsibility, it usually means doing less. A lot less. And then a little more of certain key things.
These women come to me because they are at the end of their rope with a good man they adore. They are wanting more from a man who is already giving his all, and it's their own sneaky strategy to never actually have to receive more, to stay in the familiar, receiving what's in reason.
The truth is what is coming for her is not and never was going to come THROUGH him.
Through him, she has a nourishing context to support her in birthing what is truly and deeply for her in this life. But she is the portal, and her frustration is in the way she treats her inner knowing as an entitlement, her knowing of the future as dissatisfaction for the now, her imminent expansion as a ticking time bomb for her man to get his shit together.
She's confused about who holds the power in this situation.
Her confusion was implanted intentionally.
When she takes responsibility in these ways and releases all other responsibilities, suddenly she's doing less than ever, and that is when it lands that this expansion is possible, it's easy, it's coming, and it's FOR HER.
More responsibility does not mean more action-taking. It means the wisdom of knowing what is my business and the commitment to staying there at all costs.
