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It's always a relief when he stops trying to please me.

It's an understanding I gently nudge men toward, when they are cocreating an experience with/for me.

I have shown up to enjoy what happens and how it happens.

Delight is a meta-experience. It's not about a plan going right or an outcome occurring or a circumstance coming together. It's my practice of appreciating what is here and now.

This intimacy brings safety into relationship right here and now. Men find new courage and confidence in their creative expression when it's safe for the outcome to fail.

Men are able to tune into their own delight when they drop their idea of what will please me, and if we are compatible, what delights him is sure to delight me.

Freedom from people-pleasing behavior is freedom from projections. It frees everyone involved to be intimate with the truth of the experience right here right now.