Slowly Consistent

Great men early on are consistent across months and years—if you let them be!

In the form of greatness, this looks like him establishing contact, leading your interaction, and completing the interaction in integrity, so that you are left with desire but not wondering or craziness.

Then months or years later, he will do the same again. Then months or years after that.

Then maybe weeks after that.

Then maybe days after that.

Then maybe every day after that.

Great men generously give their time and attention, so their scales of consistency are longer; they are serving vast networks with this exact pattern of low-frequency-high-value interaction.

Respecting this is the first way to move up in the ranks of his attention, if you were interested in this. If you don't value this attention pattern, you do not value one of his deepest forms of generosity, and what you really want is someone else.

Kings, however, are busy. He will drop everything for the right woman, but he will take his TIME vetting that woman and the way she appreciates and understands the moves he makes and the pressures he's under.

He would not be a king if he was prone to immediately dropping everything for a woman before thorough vetting. A king's discernment takes its precious time.