Socially Sexual

"The greater part of my sex life these days is happening in community, like everything else I always wanted partnership for."

I fall in love often and stay in love, finding the relationship that best honors that love.

I say I am not monogamous because I haven't had a good way to talk about what I am. The term for what I have been practicing these last years is Relationship Anarchy, but it's so often misunderstood as solo-poly or "no commitments" when it is actually, as I practice it, a commitment to connection so fierce that relationship reforms as often and as vastly as necessary to honor that connection.

I am also socially-sexual, which means that