Stand for Your Love

want compatibility? take a stand for staying in love

Some say "treat others as you want to be treated."

Others say "treat others as they want to be treated."

I say treat others as you want to treat others.

Express your love in the ways that feel easy and sweet, devotional, worshipful, reverent to you, for you. Express your love as a feature of who you are as a lover, not a feature of what your lovers offer you or ask from you, or what you project they need.

Express your love freely and frequently in the ways that feel best to you, and find those who are enchanted by it. Narrow in on the few who effortlessly love you in ways you find enchanting. Opt-out of pathologizing your love's presentation in the world—take a stand for your love in its expansiveness and its limitations.

Understand the love that you find enchanting, and how it aligns with and differs from the love that you offer others, and you unlock the keys to discerning compatibility from mere difference.