Unacceptable

Complaining about unacceptable behavior is how you accept the unacceptable.

Truly unacceptable behavior is not present in your life. Because you do not accept it.

Thinking of it this way you can finally, truly understand what is unacceptable to you.

I used to say that disrespect was unacceptable to me, but what was actually unacceptable was consistently respectful behavior.

I kept disrespectful behavior in my life, because it was acceptable to me to complain about unacceptable behavior.

I kept respectful behavior out of my life because it was unacceptable to have no one else to blame for my misery.

What’s unacceptable to you is not in your life. What’s in your life is there because you accept it.