Unavailable?

I cannot believe how available some of these “unavailable” men are.

You tell me they are unavailable and then I hear the context and I find…

They are available to process your decision that they are avoiding something you decided was important.

They're available to hear where you think they're going astray, how that's making you feel.

They're available to witness, reflect, and validate your desires.

You’re just not getting what you want.

They are available, emotionally and otherwise.

You are squandering their availability by confusing it with obedience.

You are experiencing a supremely available man as unavailable, because you think saying what you want means you should get it.