Relationships get sticky when we try to bring the depletion and need of the self into the connection, leveraging the obligation the other feels to serve us and “our needs.”
Yesssss i felt this in a dynamic the other night. Like here’s what I desire if we want to continue doing this. And then there’s the option that you may not want this. I which case, you don’t need to arrive for my requests. Because I’m an autonomous goddess ready to provide all my own needs and desires. It’s that plain and simple. I know I love knowing how to want and see and feel into others when I’m choosing into relationship
Yesssss i felt this in a dynamic the other night. Like here’s what I desire if we want to continue doing this. And then there’s the option that you may not want this. I which case, you don’t need to arrive for my requests. Because I’m an autonomous goddess ready to provide all my own needs and desires. It’s that plain and simple. I know I love knowing how to want and see and feel into others when I’m choosing into relationship