Village Life

Hard to Explain, Easy to Live

I addressed my relational practices because I noticed my relationships had a reliable trajectory of 3-6 months.

Apr 25 •

Bursting the Attachment Bubble

It's either attachment or devotion.

Apr 24 •

It Takes a Village

All my life, I dreamed of a devotional partnership, a sacred union, a legendary love, whatever you wanna call it.

Apr 18 •

Secure Detachment

The foundations for Secure Detachment are what I offer in the Village Principles Masterclass.

Apr 17 •

The Fairytale is Broken

I've been in the relationship coaching game 6 years now, and there's something glaring here I see few people addressing—romantic partnership is a paltry…

Apr 16 •

Context of Crisis

The situation is "tense, uncertain, and rapidly evolving."

Apr 11 •

"Yes, And..." Responding to the Genius

You are rolling your eyes, and missing the point.

Apr 10 •

Contentment is a Technology

Contentment is a technology.

Apr 4 •

Collaboration and Will

Collaboration is a willful act.

Apr 3 •

Abandonment is Impersonal

A lot of people talk about having "abandonment issues" as if this is a relational problem.

Apr 1 •

Reactive Amends

My definition of adulthood is that I can offer into the system more than I cost.

Mar 24 •

My Sweet Potato

Mar 21 •

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